Nuri Safarina

Nuri Safarina, or nicknamed Nue, is a friend of mine. We lived in the same all-girl  boarding house for two years until the house caught in fire in 2012. In that boarding house there were 8 first years(when we came in). After the fire, 8 of us actually want to stay in the same house again, but we can't find a house that can accomodate of us all. So we went each on our own way, but still in contact especially if one of us' birthday coming up.  This is the photo of us, from back in 2012. 

Nue is the long haired girl in red

Somehow it's hard to get all of us together after the fire. The last time we are in full team was on August 24, Nue's birthday last year. There are photos actually, but in Kak Yougi's (Nue's boyfriend) camera and weren't uploaded. Even in our graduation there's only 7 of us, since Paci decided not to attend. 

On the night of January 29, 2014, she got an accident, suddenly fell from the motorcycle on her way back to Bintaro with her boyfriend. I only know about the accident in January 30 morning, because Kak Yougi is tweeting from Nue's twitter. Arum and I went to visit her on RSPP that night, but visiting hour was over already so we only talk to her mom. Her brain got internal bleeding, so she was unconscious. A week later, because Arum and I worked in the same building we went there again, finally got to see her. Still unconscious, in comma state. We also met Manda. She and her mom said the day before Nue was gaining consciousness and recognizing people around her. After that, her condition suddenly dropped into comma. Arum and I visit her again on February 18 night (which is Manda's birthday). Then on February 19 noon I made a post in this blog before this. By the night I got news that she passed away.

Life is short eh? She was just 21.There are several plans that pisokers (our group of 8's name) haven't able to accomplish. Once we went to Bogor, staying over at Vindy's house. But Nue couldn't join because she has to meet her advisor for her final assignment. It's as if she got her way of revenge because we left her at that time. Then we promised to go to Bandung to compensate for leaving her to Bogor, staying over at her house. Well, we did go to Bandung, visiting her house and final resting place. Life is irony after all..... Ah, we also haven't took our photo together in photo studio. Now I think the 7 of us won't do. it will feel different, awkward, sad. From her death day on, my birthday (January 31) and Manda's won't ever be the same. 

It's only been a week, but I miss her. She is really lively, full of spirit. When you sad, she'll cheer you up and bring back your good mood. She has unique and loud laugh, the kind that will make you laugh too. She is pretty, dilligent, and friendly. One of the best of friend you can get. I still remember on one occassion she and Arum suddenly got into my room, bringing laptop, making me watch horror movie with them. I hate horrors, but she insisted and even turning off the room light. So each of us hugging pillow, and watch. The movie was Shutter (Thailand version). 

There are many moments with her, I can't possibly writing them all. But pretty Nuri, I'll remember those all, with a smile (and tears probably haha). As many said, the world is ugly and you deserve heaven. May God washed away your sins and accepting all your good deeds. May you rest in peace in the best place God gave you.

(don't be sad Paci for not in this picture :p)